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M.O.M. update

February 24, 2009    

I’m sitting here trying to figure out how I can feel tired after almost 2 weeks in bed.  I feel like a terrible blogger and an even worse podcaster.  I always have these big expectations for what “should” happen and hate it when I fall short!  

Over the weekend I had a very close and long-time friend visiting to help get things back in order before I had to crawl out of bed this week and try to take over.  She did a remarkable job!  Things that I’ve let go over time are now back in tip-top shape.  But most amazingly, she managed to get ALL the laundry in the house washed, dried, folded and put away!  This alone is worthy of sainthood!  I crawled out of bed for short bits of time to help with what I could, but it always, ultimately sent me back to bed.  But in her wisdom, she brought the work to me.  I folded socks like I haven’t folded socks in years.  Whoo Hoo!  This house looks great!  

Yesterday was my first attempt at “normal” life.  I got up and helped get the kids going for school.  Clay’s back to work but has adjusted his workday so that he can drop the kids at school and then be back in time to pick them up.  I’ve yet to try driving again.  I made it from 5am-12pm before I really had to call it quits and lay on the couch.  How in the world did 2 weeks away from the routine make me forget how much energy my 2 yr. old has?!  Luckily, Mariah had a 1/2 day so I was able to climb in bed for a nap when she showed up.  I was able to help out with serving dinner but was in bed for the night by 6:30.  Crazy times for this M.O.M!  

Today I did the same with the morning and then a friend (might I add “GOOD” in front of friend?) came to pick up Gabi and Lex for the late morning and lunchtime.  I folded some laundry and headed to bed for a lil nap.  I guess the big lesson here is that it’s been 2 weeks since surgery and I have to face the fact that I truly am no Wonderwoman!  I MUST listen to the cues my body is sending me and obey.  I just, really did NOT expect to be laid out like this!  I see the Dr. this Friday and will be happy to hear if it’s all normal and that I’m on track for a full recovery by a month’s time.  

On the bright side, I’ve caught up on some movie watching.  I hadn’t watched an entire movie, start to finish in one sitting, in years (minus the ONE movie I’ve seen in a theater in the last year)!  

Here’s some of what I’ve watched-

Legends of the Fall (an event, not a movie!)

Hello Dolly (I love musicals)

Secondhand Lions (great story!)

Blood Diamond (Happy I’m not in the market for a new diamond!)

Chocolat (for the 75th time.  Johnny Depp as a gypsy.  Uh huh!)

Secret Life of Bees (loved the book. loved the movie)

The Changeling (Fabulous example of motherhood’s persistence)

The Duchess (a true story of inconvenient love)

Brigadoon (an old favorite)

Jeremiah Johnson (if you haven’t seen it……do!)

Last of the Dogmen (again, an oldy, but a must-see)

That’s about it, but it’s been a good run!  Any suggestions for these early nights in bed?  I’m sure there are a million movies I haven’t seen! Share your favorites!

Ok, one step closer to normal……I’ve blogged!

Have a great day~

4 comments

1 Alexis { 02.24.09 at 7:24 pm }

Movies? Clint and I rented Deja Vu with Denzel Washington; that was pretty good & also Seabiscuit. Although, I think everyone has seen that one (except me!). We don’t watch a lot of movies, but those 2 are great. I finally rented Bella too; that was wonderful, but hard to watch some of those scenes being a mom.

2 christine { 02.25.09 at 12:58 pm }

Hi Jen,

Long time I haven’t visited your blog, I’m back for 10 minutes while Lea is breastfeeding :-) . Well, I hope that you are taking the best out of your forced rest, and that you’ll be soon on your feet again.
I’m having kind of a problem right now with keeping a balance in my life…and I was thinking…waou, she is a M.O.M and she took a trip to Washington just before going to surgery, and she is going to a bible study group, and a spouse’s club…..could sound like something easy to do, but right now, I’m stuck with: taking care of the kids, finding internships for french students, creating a website for business owners who want an intern, and sleeping….no sport, no movie, no outings…no balance…How do you do?

3 Gellie { 02.26.09 at 9:23 pm }

CHOCOLAT! I could watch it on a continuous loop! Johnny can come fix the creak in my door anytime! I am glad you are up and about, but DEFINITELY listen to your body and stop when it tells you to. Oh, Meet Joe Black. When’s the last time you watched that. I LOVE THAT one too! Oh, and Finding Neverland, another good Johnny Depp one. And yes, also thought Changeling was amazing. I have learned that once you are a mother, even the thought of something happening to your child makes you cry and turns you into a raging bear at the same time! I love you!

4 Melissa { 02.28.09 at 8:15 am }

I HEART Johnny Depp. He’s such a good actor IMO. The book version of Chocolat was so much better than the move, so if you have the chance to pick it up then you definitely should. Lately, we’ve been trying to catch up on Lost. I get the season DVD’s from Netflix so we just go through them.

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