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Focus For the Holiday Season

November 21, 2009    

As Thanksgiving approaches and the stores and ads are filled with all the shopping enticements, I’m having to spend a little extra effort keeping myself focused on what’s important and what the spirit of the Holiday Season is really all about. I’ve already found myself in moments of feeling down because I can’t do things a certain way or fulfill particular gift wishes. This season really requires balance and focus! I look around and I want to get caught up in all the frenzy of shopping myself into oblivion and then feel overwhelmed because I know that I can’t. Then I have to take a big, deep breath and remember all that’s in front of me. The beautiful people who touch the lives in my family each day. The friends who step forward to lend a hand. The kind and thoughtful gifts that are brought on random days, just because. The people who have shared their time and talent with my family. I have to think of our health and the fact that everyone is safe and free to speak their mind. I need to remember that each member of my family will be together on Christmas and that it isn’t about what’s going to be under the tree or in the stockings but the fact that the feeling of the season will be alive.

The media and stores work hard to get us to forget all of that! They bring on a HUGE guilt trip if we can’t fulfill our every desire. After-all, it’s the Holiday season, it’s about shopping our pockets inside out.

I’m just trying to keep reminding myself that the important thing about this season that’s upon us is the beauty in our lives, how we live and seeing the blessings in each day. I challenge each of you to keep focused and to enjoy the true spirit of this time.

Have a great day~

2 comments

1 Missy { 11.21.09 at 2:32 pm }

I so feel you on this one. It’s a very challenging time of year to not get lost in it all! I am doing my very best to not get turned inside out! I love you!! xoxo

2 Alexis { 11.21.09 at 2:57 pm }

Completely agree. We’re going to let my parents & Clint’s parents get the boys gifts this year. We’re going to get them a few things for St. Nicholas Day, and leave Christmas to the grandparents. A loving home, our faith, values & our time is the best gift we give to our kids.

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