Mommy of Many Meltdown…Seriously!
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School, work, lunches, homework, cub scouts, laundry, broken items in the bathroom, Christmas cards, school pictures to send out, Kateri coming home, JJ coming home, Clay coming home, Christmas dinner, Christmas shopping, Christmas wrapping, phone calls, bills, folding socks, looking for the missing box of Christmas decorations, clean the yard, clean the garage, make sure the vehicles don’t run out of gas, Science Fair projects…STOP!
The Science Fair threw me over! I’ve been juggling the list above and was holding it together pretty well, until last night and the Science Fair. Weeks ago one of my kids gave me their list of needed items for their project. I took the list, placed it on my desk with the million other papers and moved along with daily life. Yesterday it was ABSOLUTELY the last day to get the stuff for her and have her do her experiment. I told her that I couldn’t find the list, but that I was headed to the store and she could just text the list to me. This is the text I received;
Blender
3 disposable pipettes
1- 10 ml graduated cylinder
3- 50 ml flasks
1 stirring rod
Graph paper
Distilled water
Cheese cloth
Corn or potato starch
Glass beaker
Tincture iodine
Frozen OJ
Bottled OJ
Canned OJ
Oranges
Juicer
Uh…I was at Vons, not a medical lab! You can only imagine the conversation that occurred after that text. After acknowledging that she was not at fault and had done everything correctly, in giving me her list weeks ago, and that I had dropped the ball by not looking at it and trying to figure out where to get these things, I started to cry. Yep, crying seemed like the best way to go at that point. I mean, what kind of mother am I? I had the list and I left it till the last minute. I promised I’d call her teacher and explain. First I had to stop crying. Poor teacher! I got her on the phone and only got through, “hi, it’s Jen Lang” before the flood gates opened again.
Yikes!
Long story short, she told me that I did not need to cry over the science fair and that my daughter would, indeed, have the time she needed to get things done.
Whew! Sometimes there’s just a straw to break the camel’s back and yesterday it was the science fair. Thank goodness for kind and understanding people!
Have a great day~




Tuesday, December 15th 2009 at 9:55 am |
Oh, Jen…I SO understand. Yes, those papers get lost on my desk on a REGULAR basis. Praying for some peace in the midst of the dance for you today!!!
Tuesday, December 15th 2009 at 11:05 am |
This one made me laugh and cry…call me if you need a hug
Tuesday, December 15th 2009 at 11:57 am |
There are only so many balls one person can juggle and when you add even one more…….and in your case you are usually given several.
You are doing a spectacular job, Jen. To answer your question- you are an amazing mother. I couldn’t even conceive of a better one.
-Clay
Tuesday, December 15th 2009 at 2:10 pm |
Oh girl, I also had a breakdown over my laptop because it is having serious issues. I put my head in a pillow and proceeded to just bawl. I sure felt better after I did that! Tons of hugs and love to you!
Wednesday, December 16th 2009 at 12:09 am |
Oh, honey, do I understand you on this one!! ANd my husband wasn’t even deployed, so you are truly supermom. I have kids that bark at me, “DON”T you dare put that on your desk!” cuz they know I will lose it. SIgh…
You’re an amazing mom!! ANd I am so proud of you for all the great work you are doing for the future of our country – just think – 9 taxpayers added to the mix!! You rock!!!
Thursday, December 17th 2009 at 3:18 am |
hahahaha and people wonder where I get it from.
crying solves so much