‘Round the Dinner Table With (some of) the Lang Clan

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I know that dinnertime is important and in this house we don’t always get to have a sit-down dinner. Many nights, I call the kids into the kitchen, make their plates, hand them to them and then they take them to the table to eat and are excused when they’re done. But last night, there was time in our schedule to have, what Gabi calls,”a spread-out dinner”. This means that everything is put into bowls or on plates and the table is set and waiting and we all sit together. I’m so glad we had that time! It meant listening to the kids chatter at me and at each other about their day and to be able to hear some of their ideas. Had we not been sitting down last night, I may never have known what Tristan wanted to be when he grows up…”rich!”. Or that my 3 youngest boys all think it would be a great idea when they grow up, to have homes for the elderly. Tristan’s thought was that there should be a nice place for older people to spend their golden years. Max felt that he should start a town and give all the housing away, for free, to it’s elderly residents. Luke-Xavier felt that he should have a “food house” where all the people come and he goes up on his roof (he made sure to specify that the roof would be flat) in his elevator and gets the food for the people who need it. Gabi chimed in that she would be a model. She says she’ll be a model most of the days, but on some days she’ll build houses-houses where everything is heart-shaped and they’ll be “love houses”. Tristan asked her, “so, they’re for people who are in love?”. She put him in his place by explaining that “love houses” are full of love and are for the old people so that they know we love them…Sweet girl!

We ended dinner with the question, from Gabi, of how the chicken that was being eaten was killed. I had to admit that I really don’t know how chickens are killed and sent to market. I was scolded and told that they are shot…shot, the bullet is then taken out of the them and the hole from the bullet is superglued together so that no one has to see it. Chicken…yum!

I hope we can find time for more “spread-out” dinners soon!

Have a great day~

4 Comments

  1. Comment by froglady:

    For Tristan…………does this mean Papa Cliff and myself will have a house to live in when we get older? Hope it is some kind of “love house” too.

  2. Comment by Gellie:

    WOW!!! I wish I could have been there. It is always wonderful to hear children talk amongst themselves, especially when they feel comfortable and at ease to say whatever is on their mind. That right there is a table of people who are going to positively impact the world around them! Thanks for sharing this.

  3. Comment by Clay:

    Some of the things I miss the most. Can’t wait!

  4. Comment by Pilary:

    Simply wonderful! I love each one of those gems of wisdom. We’re you sitting there smiling the whole time? I can imagine I’d be biting my lip a bit through my smiles and have very wide ‘twinkling eyes’. (That’s what my kids say I do when I listen to something endearingly entertaining.) Miss you and your wonderful children oodles!

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